I agree with you. Me, I locked up my husband's 4-inch cock permanently. However, twice a year (for his birthday and his party), I do as on the video, I release him, I wank him a little and I put him back in his cage when I decide even if he has not squirted . He is very frustrated and I laugh. But he thanks me anyway and I love it. I have a lover who makes me come. lol